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Deb's avatar

You help keep me sane, Ramona. Thank you. šŸ¤—šŸ’—šŸ¤—

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Well, that's a perk! Let's keep on doing this!

Sue Clancy's avatar

Beautiful! Thank you for writing this! šŸ’™šŸ’ššŸ«¶šŸ’ššŸ’™

Dotflower's avatar

Keep fighting - for our country and for yourself. You are not alone. šŸ«¶āœŒļø

Kathryn's avatar

Resilient.

Perseverance.

Whatever it takes.

You are šŸ’œšŸ”„šŸ’œ

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Thank you! šŸ’•šŸ’™

Ken Firestone's avatar

You are an inspiration.

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Thank you, Ken. And thank you for your generous support. It means so much. šŸ’•

Elizabeth Ratkovich's avatar

You are a treasure. You articulate our shared feelings and thoughts so well. Thank you! I’m glad to hear that your chemo is going well. May that continue until you completely recover.

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Thank you. Fingers crossed!

Suzanne Carlblom's avatar

You have about a decade on me, Ramona, but your writing still hits me right where I live! Thank you for your transparency and your expressive writing.

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Thank ou for being here. šŸ’•

Catherine Biondi's avatar

As an elder (71) and fellow Michigander, I’m here for you, Ramona! The aging process is so cruel. šŸ˜–

Although I’m still in relatively good health, I’m considering ā€œassisted passingā€ when I’m no longer functioning at a decent level. Fortunately, the Dr. Kavorkian solution is legal now in an increasing number of U.S. states. My only offspring is aware of this, and she understands and supports my decision (at least to my face). It will be followed by cremation and the scattering of my ashes in the ocean or the woods.

As a society, the U.S. treats our pets more compassionately than we treat our sundowning humans. But when we consider how much revenue would be lost by the institutions that enrich themselves by keeping terminally ill people alive through extreme measures, it’s easy to see why we do it. To paraphrase a famous observation, ā€œIt’s the profits, stupid!ā€

With all my heart, my friend, I hope you will defeat the scourge of cancer. Please keep us posted.

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Good for you. Assisted passing is a mercy for some and nothing should stand in your way if it’s your choice. Dr. Kevorkian had the right idea. He was just ahead of his time and he came off strange. I’m glad there were others who took up his cause.

DLJohnson's avatar

When I started my nursing career I felt like this and when I retired after 38 years , I still felt this way.

Peace and comfort to to you, Ramona!

Michael Jensen's avatar

Thanks for sharing your wisdom, Ramona. ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

Ellen Lord's avatar

So very well said. Love you Girlfriend šŸ’•

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Backatcha, pal! ā¤ļø

Mark Mansour's avatar

What a wonderful life you have lived, Ramona. May you have many more years, for you are a treasure.

Janice Walton's avatar

Take care, Ramona.

Nancy Stordahl's avatar

Hi Ramona,

Glad you're half way through chemo. Good luck with the next four rounds and good for you for doing what feels best for you. Sometimes, staying home is exactly what we need. What a wonderful grandson you have, and he lives close by, too. How nice for you both.

As for your writing - don't uderestimate your impact. What you write DOES matter. A lot. It motivates, informs, fires us up, and without a doubt, helps keep us sane. So don't doubt yourself and the impact your writing has had and continues to have. Thank you!

Ramona Grigg's avatar

Thank you, Nancy. For everything. šŸ’•

Graham Smith's avatar

Thanks…. Just thanks … that’s it.

Ken Firestone's avatar

ā€œWe’re talking about having Chinese for Christmasā€

I have been thinking about this for a while, and finally got around to writing something. There is a Jewish tradition, at least in New York, to have a Chinese dinner and a movie on Christmas Eve. This year Barbara and I are also planning Chinese on Christmas Eve and leftovers on Christmas Day. The one nearby restaurant we like always gives way too much for old people like us to eat at once.

Ramona Grigg's avatar

It'll be interesting to see how many others join us at the Chinese Buffet. I like buffets for that very reason: Too much food at other restaurants. Plus I can choose more options. And it's good!